Men are from Mars...

To ease up these tensions, men should be brought up like girls, teach them how to behave and Bharatnattaym should be made compulsory for boys. On the other corner, girls should be made tougher by making Taekwondo compulsory for them. History and moral science along with Guide and Scout movement should be made compulsory so as to promote good thoughts and actions.

Same corruption, the ancient Indian social system has suffered for ages in the form of a caste system. Caste for everyone was not by birth but by Karma in those days. Our society used to be a tough one for our enemies to deal with.

This text of mine was too long and boring! 😅  But please convey to as many people as you can to promote good thoughts. You must have watched Salman Khan's "Jay Ho". Akshay Kumar's  "Padman" and "Toilet" promote hygiene and cleanliness. Some things should be done to discourage clumsiness as well. India is a country of procrastinating people.

For students either boys or girls from the age of 5 till the age of 25:-

काक चेष्टा बको ध्यानं, श्वान निद्रा तथैव च ।

अल्पहारी गृह त्यागी, विद्यार्थी पंच लक्षणं ॥

भावार्थ:

कौआ की तरह चतुर, बगुला की तरह ध्यान करने वाले, स्वान की तरह कम निंद्रा , तथा कम खाने वाला, ग्रह का त्याग करने बाले ही विद्यार्थी के पांच लक्षण हैं।

भावार्थ 2:

एक विद्यार्थी को कौव्वे की तरह जानने की चेष्टा करते रहना चाहिए, बगुले की तरह मन लगाना(ध्यान करना) चाहिए, कुत्ते की तरह सोना चाहिए, काम से काम और आवश्यकतानुसार खाना चाहिए और गृह-त्यागी होना चाहिए।

यही पांच लक्षण एक विद्यार्थी के होते है

अंग्रेजी में अर्थ:

A student should be alert like a crow, have concentration like that of a Crane and sleep like that of a dog that wakes up even at slightest of the noise. The student should eat scantily to suffice his energy needs and neither less nor more. Also, he should stay away from chores of daily household stuff and emotional attachment.

विद्यार्थियों के लिए अन्य श्लोक:

विद्यां ददाति विनयं विनयाद् याति पात्रताम् ।

पात्रत्वात् धनमाप्नोति धनात् धर्मं ततः सुखम् ॥

भावार्थ:

पढ़ने-लिखने से शऊर आता है। शऊर से काबिलियत आती है। काबिलियत से पैसे आने शुरू होते हैं। पैसों से धर्म और फिर सुख मिलता है।

ॐ असतो मा सद्गमय ।

तमसो मा ज्योतिर्गमय ।। 

मृत्योर्मामृतं गमय ।

ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः ।।

-बृहदारण्यक उपनिषद् 1.3.28.

हिंदी

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मैं असत्य की ओर नहीं, सत्य की ओर जाऊँ,

मैं अन्धकार की तरफ नहीं, रौशनी की तरफ जाऊँ,

मैं मृत्यु को नहीं, अमृत को पाऊँ।

For women from the age of 25 till the age of 75 as a house-wives.

 

कार्येषु दासी, करणेषु मंत्री, भोज्येषु माता, शयनेषु रम्भा ।

धर्मानुकूला क्षमया धरित्री, भार्या च षाड्गुण्यवतीह दुर्लभा ॥

 

Karyeshu Dasi

One who takes up any work without weighing it as good or bad, high or low standard, as all honest work dignifies the worker.

Karaneshu Mantri

One who is a confident person who can differentiate between good and bad for herself as well as for her loved ones, and is smart in worldly matters.

Bhojeshu Mata

One who is capable of taking care of her family’s basic needs like food. She does not necessarily have to be a good cook or a bread earner to qualify here. She can do it whichever way she is comfortable.

Shayaneshu Ramba

One who is not passive about her intimate needs as well as strengths. She is bold enough to agree that she too has desires, and she is capable enough to drive you crazy!

Roopeshu Lakshmi

One who loves herself the way she is. Who does not require to fit herself in any stereotype to feel beautiful, to look beautiful? One who believes that being a woman in itself is being beautiful.

Kshmayeshu Dharitri

One who has patience like this earth in the true sense. Who can deal with all the negativity around her and still stay positive? Who is unmoved by the evils of this society, and one who will never give up standing strong, come what may.

Shat dharma yuktah

Every woman has these six virtues of a good wife, and thus …

Kula Dharma Patni

Every woman is capable of being a good wife. No matter if she is employed or not employed (outside the home), she is a WOMAN and that is really more than ENOUGH. And even if she is capable of being a very good wife, it is in no way mandatory for every woman to prove it by actually being a wife, it should be again – her choice.

I guess, we, as women should start respecting each other without pointing fingers or comparing how one is better than the other. Only when we stand strong together, will we get the desired equality and respect in this society.

 

For men from the age of 25 till the age of 75 as an ideal husband.

 

कार्येषु योगी, करणेषु दक्ष, रुपेचा कृष्णा, क्षमायाथु रामा।

भोज्येशु तृप्तः, सुखदुक्खा मित्र, षट्कर्मयुक्तः, खलु धर्मनाथा॥

 

A husband is who works like Yogi (detached from happiness, sadness, pride…), he who advises like king Daksha (Daksha means brilliant), he who always has a smile on his face like Krishna, he who has patience like Rama, he who appreciates whatever is being cooked by wife (or in the family), he who is like a friend who is always there in happiness and bad times.